Mr. Obasi, the alleged ex-husband of actress Judy Austin, has pleaded for assistance in the dispute over child custody.
The two-parent family turned to Cutie Jull’s blog, where the father begged for assistance in getting to his children.
Mr. Obasi disclosed that he married Judy, who was 19 at the time, when he was 29, and the couple had two lovely children.
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He talked about how he spent a lot of money on Judy to get her a degree.
According to Mr. Obasi, Judy and Yul began dating in 2012 while he was still his husband.
He added that Judy and the kids left their home after he declined to buy her a home in Enugu.
He told her parents about the incident, but they were unmoved.
Mr Obasi added that though he had taken care of the kids when Judy and Yul wedded, she cut off all access from him.
Read the deails below:
Long story short, When Judy was 19 and Mr Obasi was 29, Judy moved in with him cuz she got pregnant. Gave birth to their first child [girl] on 20 April 2007. Had their 2nd child on 18 January 2009. Mr Obasi suggested Judy should learn a trade but Judy said she wanted to go back to school. So Mr Obasi paid for Judy to write JAMB. Judy did not make good grades. Mr Obasi spent 500 to get IMT, Judy stoped, spent another 100k and 300k all Judy did not want. She wanted to go to Uni. Finally, she got into Uni after another bribe. That was when trouble started. In Uni, Judy who was then married to Mr Obasi met Yul in 2012. They started dating. Her husband reported to family, had meetings but Judy denied. Until one day he caught them. Still forgave cuz they already had 2 children. Then boom Judy told the husband she wants him to rent her a place in Enugu. They were living in Onitsha. The husband said why do you want to move to Enugu when we have have established here? You want to go to school, I have done that. Paying your fees, books even bribe etc. You are now in your 2nd year in Uni, I’m still paying fees. Now you want to me to rent you a place in Enugu, why? Judy said he either rent her a place in Enugu or she will leave him. On 27 Dec 2012 the man asked his wife to follow him to an Xmas event, she refused.
He retuned and discovered his wife, Judy had emptied their home and taken the kids. Got info that Yul brought car, parked close to the house and Judy and the kids drove in the car with Yul while the truck that had their belongings follow. He said he reported the incident to Judy’s parents but the parents sef get their own for body. Judy is a boss. Like a family of children are not told what to do.
He said he only thank God for his life. Fast forward, he has been taking care of his children. But the very day Yul went to pay Judy’s bride price, Judy cut him off from communicating or seeing his children. He said the Friday before Yul paid Judy’s bride on Sunday, elders in Judy’s community called him to a meeting and told him about Yul’s intention since Judy’s family had not returned his bride price then.
So after the elders in Judy’s community called Mr Obasi about Yul’s intention to marry Judy. They asked him that they know Judy is his wife but Yul has come to inform them that he will be coming with his people on Sunday to pay Judy’s bride price so they want to know if he returned Judy’s bride price without the elders knowing. Mr Obasi says he told them about the incident that happened on 27th December 2012 and how Judy and Yul has been together since. He also used the opportunity to officially inform that about the fact that May has moved on with Yul since and they even have a child so this call they are calling him is not needed and all he is wants is to have a good relationship with his kids.
Fast forward, Judy’s husband says he has taken issue about having contacts and custody with his children to Onitsha Human rights, ni better results. He has been to Ogidi Welfare still no avail.
Yul has more influence and connection than him. So he wants to plead with Nigerians to help him tell Judy to allow him access to his kids. He is not comfortable with Judy raising these kids alone especially regarding so many things he saw during their marriage and the fact that Judy comfortably moved on with Yul without first divorcing him.
He is begging Nigerian legal system to have mercy on him and give him justice of making Judy allow him access to his kids. He not as connected and as rich as Yul but he is the father of his 2 children with Judy and he doesn’t want Yul and Judy to bul#y him out of his parental rights.
He says since 27th December 2012, he has never given Judy and Yul any trouble. He picked his broken heart in peace, he did not contend cuz Judy’s move proved she preferred Yul but for his children, they are his blood and he doesn’t want Yul to take them away from him.
Hmmm online in-laws, do you think the husband is asking for too much?