Foluke Daramola Salako, a prominent Nigerian actress, recently shared her experience with red flags in relationships in an interview with TVC Your View. During the interview, she revealed that she lost her virginity through rape, which led to her developing a strong aversion to sex.
Despite her trauma, her first husband showed little empathy for her situation and pressured her for s3x every day, which made her feel like she was being punished. The situation made her feel like she was constantly being beaten, which made her afraid to go home.
Foluke’s experience sheds light on the importance of understanding and respecting one’s partner’s boundaries and trauma in relationships. It also highlights the importance of communication and empathy in relationships.
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“I lost my virginity through r@pe, so s3x to me was punishment and the person I got married to wanted it every time. It felt like he was beating me”.
She added that before she married him, she saw the red flags but ignored them.
Foluke stated that her partner was rushing her into marriage and since she wanted to get married because of peer pressure, she jumped into it.
She disclosed that she got a broken sim on her wedding night as her husband asked her to cut her sim.
“When I wanted to enter my first marriage, the sign was there even though my partner was rushing me into marriage and I was like my friends were getting married. All the signs were there. Anger issues.
My first experience was on my wedding night. I got a broken sim cause I had to change to a new sim.
I saw the signs of abuse and anger but I overlooked them.
I had to stay there because of what proof would say”.
