Why are women called “husband snatchers” even though it is males who initiate contact?
Let’s take a page from Big Brother Naija’s Maria Chike, a Cubana Chief priest, and her married boo, Kelvin.
Is a married guy a commodity, for example? Is he a plate of rice or a’stolen’ iPhone? Unlike the alleged’snatcher,’ the man took a vow and vowed an oath to his wife to be true and loyal.
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This act of patriarchy irritates me greatly.
It’s past time for married men, not just their sugar babies, to be chastised for their wandering manhood.
These women are frequently the victims of deception and lying on the part of these men, who would lie just to get their pants down.
Furthermore, I cannot deny that some of these “Ogabnje” (Marine Spirit) girls approach these men despite their marital status.
However, polygamy is permitted in African (at least Nigerian) custom…. (Though I am not a fan.) Why do we frown on it when some of our forefathers and foremothers did?
Will polygamy reduce the incidence of “husband snatching”? Let us know what you think in the comments section.
PS: We are not in favor of polygamy.