Ruth Kadiri Ezerike’s ability to successfully conceal her marriage and spouse is no longer breaking news.
She explains her reasoning in a recent interview, saying, “Okay, first of all, my marriage is not top-secret. You wouldn’t be aware of my marriage if it weren’t top-secret. Second, if you are close to me and are familiar with who I really am, you would realise that my husband is not a top-secret.
When I’m on set, my hubby goes to the site and stops by. He’s at home, my pals are coming home, they know him, they’ve interacted with him, his friends and family know him—what else is there to say? That’s pretty much it. I don’t want to stress myself out emotionally or mentally; I’m absolutely fine. Anyone that personally knows me also knows my husband, and that’s okay.
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Many women lament the costs of parenthood, including the change in their physical form, the effect on their careers, and the lack of opportunity to pursue personal growth. However, for the mother of one from Edo State, the experience has been a rollercoaster because she had “kind people around her.”
These are all legitimate worries and causes for concern, and I believe that every mother has experienced this phase of fear. However, when you have supportive individuals nearby, such as your partner or family, it’s always easier to deal with the situation. Eventually, you’ll adjust to the new reality.
Nothing is ever lost. The time you used to cater for your baby, to take care of your child, it’s never lost. Whatever is yours will always come to you regardless of when. So far, it’s been good. I have loving people around and so I don’t feel that much pressure, I don’t have that much pressure. I thought I was even going to have it so, basically it was just fear that held me down at some point but after the whole process, I don’t even feel any of such pressure or restrain,” she noted.